Aiyo, not so easy lah. Haha. No husband also. Cannot have dinner before breakfast. Give my parents heart attack. Give ME heart attack also, man, when you really think about it. HAHA. Like Adam and Eve story pula.
hahaha... it's not easy getting married with kids u know.. so i suggested to have baby without getting married.. ur case diff pam.. haha.. ur parents heart-attack.. hhmm actually my parents will too la.. just.. need to bare it with urself.. tat's the main problem to me..
Get married with kids seems worse to you than having kids WITHOUT getting married?! GOODNESS! Which world do you live in, man? You'd rather not have a husband and go at motherhood alone? That's even scarier!
it's not that i am odd la.. just that.. i saw what happen to marriage too much.. that's why i got phobia.. go check my post at http://iboxed.com/christy/?p=48 haha.. that will explain why i said what i said here... i knew u can't sleep.. saw u online for long hours liao.. some more keep updating new post.. on and on.. i'm busy updating mind too.. haha.. click here click there..
But that's no reason to start a family and consciously decide to have your child and give him/her NO FATHER. It's not fair to your child! If you think you're ready for a kid, you have to be sure that you're able to make SELFLESS decisions. How is a decision made to ensure a fatherless child, a selfless and wise decision?
Will check out your post later. I got baby duty in a bit. *grin*
Ya lor. Cannot sleep leh. Sigh. Today sure look like crap di.
ATTN: Christy – But but but... How would that work out for your child? If you can't see the future, how could you possibly WANT your child to live in such an uncertain environment? It isn't fair to allow your child to potentially suffer for such uncertain circumstances.
ATTN: adhojlim – Maternal instincts kicking in ma. And not like it's so recent also. It's been so long already. Haha.
And you think get married means get married ah? One hand clap no use, okay? Especially if the one hand is the girl.
Haha..wanna be mummy instinct I should say..=) Patientla fren, your turn will definately arrives when your partner is ready. A healthy BGR will surely ends up with a strong marriage. By then you can have many babieslor.... a volleyball team or soccer team...haha.. kinda sounds like piggies's mumler...=P
Hey! Tell you what..I found out that some of my unmarried and attached female friends are very afraid to give birth wan. You know what they said...they want to get married, be loved but heck! Dunwan babies at all. Hah! If you think there are many uncommitted men out there...I guess these ladies are freaky ones too. Kinda shock to hear that. Wanted to be loved but dunwan the love's products! These kind of ladies will definately be out of my checklists one.. Sigh!
Christy: Hi There! Nice knowing you. Assuming if you have a kid and no father for your beloved kid. What will the situation says when your kid is asked to fill in the father name column in the school? And when your kid sees his friends are accompanied by their respective father, what would he/she be thinking?. The mental attack will hit and hurt the child so deeply.
And of coursela..all of us are uncertain about the future but finding the right father for your kids and husband to you is the least you can do right? Be positivey Christy! If marriage is build on a strong foundation, I dun believe your marriage is going nowhere... Cheers, =)
I so very the Wannabe la. Really. Darn. Happened to get to jaga nursery today and totally had a blast. LOVED IT!
And no, who says I want MANY babies? I just want some babies of my own. That's all. It's not in the quantity, it's in the quality. =p
Whoa. Those girls are weird! I know plenty of girlfriends who want kids now but are unattached or unmarried so they can't. Sigh. If all women think like them, habislah the human race. HABIS!
~pam hhmm.. u have ur point there.. n i actually tot if tat before too.. i actually think that having a kid takes a very heavy responsibility.. me personally witness a kid in that uncertain circumstances too.. who knows.. i mighht change my point of view.. someday.. who knows.. :)
~adhojlim hi.. ya it's nice to know u here.. understanding what u guys are trying to tell me is not hard.. is the accepting part that's tough.. really.. i am positive in most way but marriage.. LOL.. ppl close to me had bad experience often.. not to blame it on them actually.. it's scary to witness those happens to them.. tats why.. and like wat i told pam, i might change my point of view someday.. who knows.. (",)
Christy: Yah! Its scary to see that happens....a loving couple suddenly transformed into enemies. I have seen that too...and the worst part is the child got affected badly. Kinda confused and lost in the society. I have tough time talking to this fren. But praise the Lord, he is now on fire for God! Well.. Keep on searching for the answers in the Lord! You shall find it one day!
If woman fears of divorce... let me be honest with you....I fear that too...that is why we have to open our eyes 'besar-besar' before jumping into the right boat.. It is unfair for any child to go motherless or fatherless. These children are innocent. Hmmm...may God dwell in our society! Cheers, =)
ATTN: Christy – I know it's difficult to believe in marriage and all the promises that come with it after being hurt before. Every hurt that comes along our sorry way just hacks away at whatever faith we have in the sanctity, loyalty and purity of marriage.
It's all about commitment. When times are tough, in marriage, there's no such thing as giving up. In fact, you press on even harder than ever. ESPECIALLY if you have a child to care for. But even if you don't, the same rules apply. If you think that break-ups are painful, I'm sure that divorce is a hundred times worse.
May you find true love that changes your view of marriage. =)
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have one quick!!! the room's really nice.. :P
It's really not that hard to make one, you know.
Aiyo, not so easy lah. Haha. No husband also. Cannot have dinner before breakfast. Give my parents heart attack. Give ME heart attack also, man, when you really think about it. HAHA. Like Adam and Eve story pula.
*blink blink*
Oh. My. Goodness.
I meant to say like Mary and Joseph. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
*blush*
Oh, lookie-lookie! Everyone's not sleeping, too! How nice.
hahaha... it's not easy getting married with kids u know.. so i suggested to have baby without getting married..
ur case diff pam.. haha.. ur parents heart-attack.. hhmm actually my parents will too la.. just.. need to bare it with urself.. tat's the main problem to me..
Eh, you siao ah!?
Get married with kids seems worse to you than having kids WITHOUT getting married?! GOODNESS! Which world do you live in, man? You'd rather not have a husband and go at motherhood alone? That's even scarier!
Darn it, I can't sleep. Sigh.
it's not that i am odd la.. just that.. i saw what happen to marriage too much.. that's why i got phobia.. go check my post at http://iboxed.com/christy/?p=48
haha.. that will explain why i said what i said here...
i knew u can't sleep.. saw u online for long hours liao.. some more keep updating new post.. on and on.. i'm busy updating mind too.. haha.. click here click there..
But that's no reason to start a family and consciously decide to have your child and give him/her NO FATHER. It's not fair to your child! If you think you're ready for a kid, you have to be sure that you're able to make SELFLESS decisions. How is a decision made to ensure a fatherless child, a selfless and wise decision?
Will check out your post later. I got baby duty in a bit. *grin*
Ya lor. Cannot sleep leh. Sigh. Today sure look like crap di.
conclusion is.. i fear future that i cannot see.. so to me.. no matter how pretty i plan it.. it jus won't work the way it is plan..
haiyo...this is the first lady that I ever met that craze for babies until liddat... hahaha =P
If so 'kan cheong'...go get marriedla.. and invite me to your wedding dinner's reception. Hehe..
ATTN: Christy
– But but but... How would that work out for your child? If you can't see the future, how could you possibly WANT your child to live in such an uncertain environment? It isn't fair to allow your child to potentially suffer for such uncertain circumstances.
ATTN: adhojlim
– Maternal instincts kicking in ma. And not like it's so recent also. It's been so long already. Haha.
And you think get married means get married ah? One hand clap no use, okay? Especially if the one hand is the girl.
Haha..wanna be mummy instinct I should say..=) Patientla fren, your turn will definately arrives when your partner is ready. A healthy BGR will surely ends up with a strong marriage. By then you can have many babieslor.... a volleyball team or soccer team...haha.. kinda sounds like piggies's mumler...=P
Hey! Tell you what..I found out that some of my unmarried and attached female friends are very afraid to give birth wan. You know what they said...they want to get married, be loved but heck! Dunwan babies at all. Hah! If you think there are many uncommitted men out there...I guess these ladies are freaky ones too. Kinda shock to hear that. Wanted to be loved but dunwan the love's products! These kind of ladies will definately be out of my checklists one.. Sigh!
Christy: Hi There! Nice knowing you. Assuming if you have a kid and no father for your beloved kid. What will the situation says when your kid is asked to fill in the father name column in the school? And when your kid sees his friends are accompanied by their respective father, what would he/she be thinking?. The mental attack will hit and hurt the child so deeply.
And of coursela..all of us are uncertain about the future but finding the right father for your kids and husband to you is the least you can do right? Be positivey Christy! If marriage is build on a strong foundation, I dun believe your marriage is going nowhere... Cheers, =)
I so very the Wannabe la. Really. Darn. Happened to get to jaga nursery today and totally had a blast. LOVED IT!
And no, who says I want MANY babies? I just want some babies of my own. That's all. It's not in the quantity, it's in the quality. =p
Whoa. Those girls are weird! I know plenty of girlfriends who want kids now but are unattached or unmarried so they can't. Sigh. If all women think like them, habislah the human race. HABIS!
~pam
hhmm.. u have ur point there.. n i actually tot if tat before too.. i actually think that having a kid takes a very heavy responsibility.. me personally witness a kid in that uncertain circumstances too..
who knows.. i mighht change my point of view.. someday.. who knows.. :)
~adhojlim
hi.. ya it's nice to know u here..
understanding what u guys are trying to tell me is not hard.. is the accepting part that's tough.. really.. i am positive in most way but marriage.. LOL.. ppl close to me had bad experience often.. not to blame it on them actually.. it's scary to witness those happens to them.. tats why.. and like wat i told pam, i might change my point of view someday.. who knows.. (",)
Christy: Yah! Its scary to see that happens....a loving couple suddenly transformed into enemies. I have seen that too...and the worst part is the child got affected badly. Kinda confused and lost in the society. I have tough time talking to this fren. But praise the Lord, he is now on fire for God! Well.. Keep on searching for the answers in the Lord! You shall find it one day!
If woman fears of divorce... let me be honest with you....I fear that too...that is why we have to open our eyes 'besar-besar' before jumping into the right boat.. It is unfair for any child to go motherless or fatherless. These children are innocent. Hmmm...may God dwell in our society! Cheers, =)
~adhojlim
thanks a lot. :)
ATTN: Christy
– I know it's difficult to believe in marriage and all the promises that come with it after being hurt before. Every hurt that comes along our sorry way just hacks away at whatever faith we have in the sanctity, loyalty and purity of marriage.
It's all about commitment. When times are tough, in marriage, there's no such thing as giving up. In fact, you press on even harder than ever. ESPECIALLY if you have a child to care for. But even if you don't, the same rules apply. If you think that break-ups are painful, I'm sure that divorce is a hundred times worse.
May you find true love that changes your view of marriage. =)
ATTN: adhojlim
– Whoa. Counselor AL in the house.
:)
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