Read Operasi Train Jantan: Part 1, Operasi Train Jantan: Part 2,
Operasi Train Jantan: Part 3, and Operasi Train Jantan: Part 4
first if you haven't read them yet.
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Hello, dear friends. I'm back.
*evil grin*
And the today's topic will be: SENSITIVITY.
Tada!
A short and sweet introduction for once.
It's a good change, no?
A short and sweet introduction for once.
It's a good change, no?
Okay. Enough with the hippie vibe. (I blame the fancy colours that come with Blogspot.) This is serious business. No play play.
Be sensitive to your girl's feelings.
Don't you dare "duh" me.
I know you're doing it.
*glare*
You better shut your trap
before I stuff it with mangled cat carcass.
*deep Yoga breath*
I know you're doing it.
*glare*
You better shut your trap
before I stuff it with mangled cat carcass.
*deep Yoga breath*
I don't think it's asking for much, actually. But sometimes, it's just being sensitive enough to empathise with however she's feeling (even if she's happy). You know? Share the sorrow and double the joy. Do it. It shows a lot about how much you care for her. Never downplay her feelings or overlook her achievements. If they mean anything at all to her, they should at the very least mean something to you.
Of course, I know that there are girls out there who are waaaay too sensitive for their own good. That's a different case la. I'm referring to the more NORMAL girls here. The ones who only make you bear with the not-so-uncommon blue-moon-PMS, and those with the once-in-awhile-only mood swings.
And of course, sensitivity in other areas are required, too. There are words men say that hurt the women they see without them even realising it. Or perhaps actions they do or decisions they make that imply to his woman that he doesn't care as much as he actually does on the inside. The message of the heart is distorted by messages sent by the 5 senses. See? Therefore, whatever message that goes out to her heart needs to speak to her 5 senses accurately, too. Or else what you feel on the inside will fail to come out right. Not worth it, right?
Sigh. Bottom line is this. It'd be nice of you to put yourself in her shoes once in awhile. You know? And think about this. Could it be that you're just too self absorbed to see where she's coming from and why she feels the way she does?
Some men say that girls are too sensitive.
Could it be that they're the ones who are IN-sensitive?
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It's Friday already. The weekend's finally headin' my way.
Full steam ahead, dearie! Wheee!
Could it be that they're the ones who are IN-sensitive?
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It's Friday already. The weekend's finally headin' my way.
Full steam ahead, dearie! Wheee!
12 comments :
i did part 6 adi. =))) unforch i not so pro as you, so i dunno whether i can link properly.
jamie: i answered your question in the post. heeeeheeeee.
i <3 pam. =)
Haha. Okay okay. Set. Will read.
Why speak of the obvious?! haha
I FEEL SO LEFT OUT hello i blogged about sensitivity and security for ops train jantan!?
ATTN: Jono
– Cos sometimes, there are those who overlook the obvious.
ATTN: supersara
– Perfect linking! Way to go, babe!
ATTN: esther
– Woman, you didn't even dedicate a whole post to Operasi Train Jantan!!! It was meshed right at the bottom of your personal post! Tsk tsk tsk.
Agreed...No dispute in this chapter! Both sides must learn to be sensitive to each other especially in words (that questions capability, ability or dignity). Words are sharper than any two edges swords. It could spark arguement and turn both sides blue...=( That is what I learned from my ex gf not from OTJ5. However she also learned it from me...haha =P
Good point Pamie. Keep it rolling! =)
Haha. Finally. Agreement. =)
hey i got ONE for OTJ waaaat :( full one summore!
Haha. Okay okay. Just read. You just posted waaat. That's Part 7, btw.
you kept mentioning that your post refers to normal girl... now my question is....
how on earth will u know that ur gal is normal and aint overly sensitive type?
Heyyy waittt dun kill me first... remember, am just a guy trying to find out more ya... =')
ATTN: KenSan
– Ooo. Tough one. I like. Time to decipher and dig in. It's been awhile since I've had to think about these things.
*gleefully rubbing hands together*
Here we go.
You'll know your girl's a normal one when she's free from psychotic and borderline lunatic tendencies. Sensitive girls tend to be a bit "off" sometimes because every ounce of logic is buried under great big mounds of emotional drive.
Heh. Talk about beating around the bush. Okay okay. I'll be serious.
I feel that you can only know if your girl's an overly sensitive type if you spend enough time with her. Does she get jealous often? Does she get bouts of self-doubt and insecurity? Does she cry over the silliest things? Does she slam doors and wail when she's upset? Does she ever talk about suicide? These are normal reactions ABnormal people take when they let their emotions take over. And by abnormal, I mean sensitive people.
But really... No matter how much time you spend with her, there's no way to REALLY know if she comes without a psycho bone. You've gotta be dating for awhile before the worms start sneaking out.
The closest you can come to being sure of who she is and how she appears to be is by watching from a distance. Observe her. AND HER FRIENDS. Birds of a feather flock together. If she's into you, she's probably only showing you her best sides. Her friends wouldn't have their guards as high up as she does cos they're not into impressing you. This may ultimately work to your advantage cos in the end, you may find reflections of her in them. They are your most accurate source of information about the girl you hope to see.
Did I answer your question?
p/s: I only mentioned 'Normal' once in my post.
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