These are my ultimate deal-breakers
when it comes to guys I date/marry:
1. Drinks too much. A full-on alcoholic, a habitual drinker, or even a drinker who doesn't know his limits are big no-nos in my books. To me, 2 drinks are already 1 drink too many.
2. Smokes. Nobody likes to kiss an ashtray. Nuff said.
3. Has a drug addiction. Try once just for experience I can accept lah, I suppose. But getting addicted to the stuff is just stupid lah, ok? Stupid.
4. Gambles. Playful betting is different from gambling. If you're just betting a Milo Ais or even a KFC dinner, I can take lah. But if we're talking about football bets and casino gambling in the hundreds and thousands of Ringgit, forget it. You can go be stupid and waste your own money, on your own.
5. Swears. I don't care what language it's in. As long as it's not something you'd say in front of my mom or dad, it's not something I wanna hear.
6. Smells funky. I.e. has BO, bad breath, Hong Kong feet, etc... Wah, beh tahan, man. Every time hang out with him can faint. Summore girls are usually shorter ma. So if we hug, my nose will be damn close to his armpit, right?? If got BO, sure pengsan terus. -_-
7. Loves eating garlic. I'm sorry lah but I just can't kiss anybody with perpetual garlic breath. :-/
8. Is a male chauvinist pig. I cannot tahan men who think that they're the superior race and freely express that opinion in word and action. Go eat shit and die lah. Sure, we admit that there may be things that men do better in. But hello, there are things that girls do better in, too. You all try living without us and see?? *flicks hair*
9. Is shorter than I am. I know this makes me sound shallow as hell but... it matters okayyy! How can I possibly respect a man I can't LOOK UP to?!
10. Doesn't like/want kids. There's gotta be something wrong with a man who doesn't like/want kids, right? I mean, come on... HOW COULD YOU NOT LIKE/WANT KIDS???
So... what kind of guy/girl wouldn't you date?
15 comments :
Eh, since when are women allowed to blog wtf?
Tried drug is ok!? lol! I wouldn't date a girl who smokes. That'd be a deal-breaker in my books.
ATTN: 陳一豪
– Haha. Really kanasai wan lah you. Full of nonsense. YOU WAIT LAH! One day... 5 inch stilettos will rule the world! And who will they angkat? WOMEN! Hah!
ATTN: narrowband
– Haha. Yeah, I like shrooms and all that. Just taste, testing testing, I think ok lor. But have to be for the experience once only. Not to high for fun over and over again. That'd be bad! Haha.
Ya, I can't stand smokers also. Haha.
tsk tsk tsk but i love garlics !
ATTN: Spectre
– You chao chao!
wah... like that i should be your candidate lah... why don't you tell me earlier..
:P
hooi... why still got such post?! tot u are Q'in at the checkout counter ~dy... :p
i will so blog this soon.
My list is going to be......
long.
real.
long.
I blogged about this back in 2004, but it was in a different way - my requirements in a bf. Anyhoo... Your deal-breakers are pretty much the same as mine, except for the eating garlic. I just tell him not to come near me when he has garlic/onion breath. :P
ATTN: AntsBite
– Haha. Sorry, AntsBite. Too late for that now. Haha.
ATTN: Jack
– Check out counter can still use brain right? Stand there do nothing while I wait for the line to roll along to my turn is very boring leh. =p
ATTN: TracyEm.
– Haha. Can't. Wait. To. Read. =p
ATTN: Lissa
– Haha. Garlic breath is poisonous!!!
Love your post!! For me a deal breaker would be:
1. No Ambitions - a less shallow version of saying no money. Not like I need his money, but at least must have some sense of responsibility to be able to find enough money to send kids to uni that kind. Big house all is a bonus. I can also help to 'kung' the house ma. Np.
2. Can't Speak English - I don;t need it to be perfect lorh, not like my english is super good. But I..can..never...go with someone who struggles with the language.
3. Does not layans my friends - I need my man to be friendly okay?
4. Has girls around him all the time - I don't need to constantly worry.. why put myself through that kind of stress right?
hahaha thanks for ur post Pam!
=.=" If all girls have this list... WHY AM I STILL SINGLE AND AVAILABLE?! There should be a line... sorry, I meant, there should be LINES of girls queuing up for me!
1. I drink to entertain (You'll never see me drunk)
2. I don't smoke, take harmful drugs, nor gamble (except during festive seasons, where I play one or two rounds for entertainment)
3. I do swear (casually) but I have decent respect to others especially elders
4. I don't smell funny, but I sure am funny in person =P
5. I don't like garlic other than the fact it makes the dishes smell good =D
6. I respect female as an equal gender to male... Hence, I'm actually quite likable =P
7. I believe I'm of an average height; hence, taller than many girls =D
8. Ooo I'm great with kids!
9. Have a good ambition, also rather fluent in English, BM and Cantonese... (gotta incorporate points from others, Thanks @Jayelle)
10. I'm STILL SINGLE AND AVAILABLE!
*grins*
Mmmm... with that, I think I should just re-write it and post it as "Ten Things to Like About Jeffro" Whaddaya say? =P
ATTN: Jayelle
- Haha. Firstly, sorry for the uber late reply. Secondly, glad you loved it! Hahaha.
And in response to your deal-breakers...
1. Ya. Actually very difficult for a woman to feel secure when the man isn't able to fend for the family and put food (and tertiary education) on the table. Other glamour stuff like big house and fast cars – optional. Haha.
2. WAH... I TOTALLY FORGOT THIS ONE LAH. It's true. I couldn't never date a guy who can't speaking the Engrish goodly. Haha.
3. From experience, I'd say this is important too. Good point. And usually, I find that girlfriends tend to be able to sniff out the rat before we can because... well, they're looking at him from a third party POV with no emotional attachments. Must must must let friends meet the guy and hang out. If not always, at least every once in awhile.
4. Hmmm. I agree you know. It's not about jealousy or anything like that. It's just a matter of behaving responsibly to your partner. I don't think it's easy for a woman to feel secure when her man has sooo many flies flocking around him. Unnecessary worry.
ATTN: Jeffro
– Self promo kau kau!!! Hahahaha.
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