AMA: When Are You Getting Married?

QUESTION: When are you getting married? – yapthomas

ANSWER: Beats me, man. That whole date-get-engaged-get-married timeline got screwed to hell a long time ago and I never quite got it updated after. Anyways, thinking about it creates expectation. And we all know how bad expectation can be without the desired results so... I'd rather not go there.

So, yeah. My answer to your question is this: "I don't know." (Probably the only time I'll ever admit to not knowing anything. HAHA. =p) If you ever find out, be sure to pass along the info, alright? Cos I most certainly have no idea right now and wouldn't mind being in on that kind of juice. Haha.

p/s: You can ask me anything here.

Unintended Words Of Comfort

Thank you, Ah Beng.

You don't know it yet
but you made my night.

Comfort Food For A Lousy Week

When you're down, depressed,

stressed, and out of love and luck...


Dark chocolates, donated by my friendly neighbour Lamé.


...grab chocolates.

So Mysterious!

Whoaaa... So scandalous!

I've got so many thoughts running through my mind right now. So many guesses. Imagination running wild. Haha. I really wonder what that 'thing' that was found was. I think I shall have a word with that colleague who made the discovery. =p

AMA: What Are Your Vital Stats?

QUESTION: What are your vital stats? – San Ling


ANSWER: Hmmm. To be honest, I'm not sure cos it's been awhile since I last checked. But if my memory serves me right, my numbers are almost always small. Terribly so, in fact.

I'm underweight (always have been – can you believe that I weighed 26kgs in Std 6 and then 37kg when I was 20?!), therefore, my BMI is consistently low. I've got low blood pressure, low blood count, low cholesterol, low percentage of skeletal muscle and... my Body Analysis Result tells me that I've got a low biological age, too. (I'm very proud of that last bit, by the way. =p) So, yeah. All low = all small numbers. My vital stats aren't all that happening, as you can see. =p

Ok! Next question, please?

p/s: You can ask me anything here.

p/s/s: Thanks for the cue for this Q, Lissa! =p

AMA: Are You Happy?

QUESTION: Are you happy? – Nick Chan


ANSWER: Wow, my first serious question (and answer) on AMA. Hmmm. Tough. To tell you the truth, I don't know, actually. So, logically, I guess that means that I'm not after all. Cos if I was, I'm pretty sure I'd be screaming it from the rooftops. Knowing me.

Sigh. It sucks that Happiness is just one of those things everybody wants but so very few of us get. It isn't exactly unattainable... it's just so darn elusive so much of the time it drives me insane just trying to keep up with its passing highs.

But Happiness isn't to blame. The fault, it lies with Dissatisfaction. It's that lack of contentment is what's keeping me (and everybody else perhaps?) from being truly happy. I think too much and too rarely allow myself to just be happy with what I've got, who I am, where I've been and where I'm going.

Or maybe it's just tonight. Cos I think I'm a pretty happy bunny most of the time. If not on Tinki Talks, at least in real life. (I hide it well.) But it's 4:02AM tomorrow, and I'm still at work at the office, writing copy for something I care little about. Doesn't seem like much to be happy about, if you ask me. =(

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AMA: Sexual History!

QUESTION: Sexual history! – 陳一豪

ANSWER: Sex: Female. So, sexual history means... what my sex was from the day I was born until today, right? Well, since you asked... As far as I can remember, I've been a girl. =D

Man, I love this AMA thing! =p
I'm so ready for my next question.

p/s: You can ask me anything here.

AMA: Shave Or Trim?

QUESTION: Shave or trim? – Advertising Boy!

ANSWER: To be honest, I prefer regular trims. I think those keep it nice and healthy. But I often put trimming off for so long that I leave myself with no choice but to go for cuts. You know, I actually got curls once. (Was feeling adventurous at the time. =p) Liked it for awhile, but eventually decided that once was enough. Too much work. Most of the time, I just play with colour – highlights and all. Recently, I dyed it red. =)

Ok. Next question! =p

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