tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post1628110949575019967..comments2024-03-20T00:30:56.032+08:00Comments on Tinki Talks: Bang BangPam Songhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15399678618799594311noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-38621937063128790572007-11-06T16:53:00.000+08:002007-11-06T16:53:00.000+08:00Hey Anonymous,Ouch. I feel your pain. As though it...Hey Anonymous,<BR/><BR/>Ouch. I feel your pain. As though it isn't enough to have your feelings (and pride) trampled upon when a partner strays, you're also faced with the world against you. It's unfair, really. So I guess I have to say that it really sucks to be you. But life's such, eh? We get over things and we move on.<BR/><BR/>Thing is, your problem is that the odds are against you. Men are always assumed the cheater in the relationship should it end because of that vice. But can you really blame the world for saying that about your gender? You have to admit that MOST cheats are men. Most. Not all.<BR/><BR/>I know my fair share of female friends who cheat on their partners, too. And sure, maybe only a handful of them physically cheat on their partners. (Men tend to cheat this way more than women.) But a LOT of women cheat on their partners emotionally. That doesn't make them any better. Emotional cheating is cheating anyways. <BR/><BR/>But then again, emotional connection is a lot less frequently at hand than physical attraction. (Come on, you have to admit that.) Hence, it makes it EASIER for a man to cheat on his woman. Perhaps not because he wants to. But perhaps cos he just doesn't stand up against his temptations. <BR/><BR/>Hmmm. I agree with you when it comes to men having to preach grace. But then again, I blame the odds against you. Nothing more. If you show that you are innocent and KEEP that innocence by not biting back and bitching about your cheating woman, people will see the truth in the end. Nobody can hide anything forever.Pam Songhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15399678618799594311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-17143997769050432512007-11-06T16:45:00.000+08:002007-11-06T16:45:00.000+08:00so I've been with a cheating woman, we broke up - ...so I've been with a cheating woman, we broke up - society automatically assumes it's my fault, bloggers always thinks it's the man who cheats; cause when a woman cheats there's a good reason behind it (so it seems) and when a man cheats it's because he can't control his guns ....<BR/><BR/>something is so wrong there. and yes, woman cheats... and unlike woman (who can get physical - usually), men are expected just sit there and preach grace.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-70872105852219107592007-10-04T13:28:00.000+08:002007-10-04T13:28:00.000+08:00Well, DUH. Leon lah yang terasa himself. Ish.Well, DUH. Leon lah yang terasa himself. Ish.Pam Songhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15399678618799594311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-745543436577950112007-10-04T09:59:00.000+08:002007-10-04T09:59:00.000+08:00its not a man/woman problem. Its a human problem. ...its not a man/woman problem. Its a human problem. Sin. Lust. Greed. Hornyness. Whatever it may be, it's a human thing. <BR/>Nuff' said.Jonohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02054633763921631746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-71207036916991868572007-10-02T17:00:00.000+08:002007-10-02T17:00:00.000+08:00Haha. I hope you're enjoying my latest post. =pHaha. I hope you're enjoying my latest post. =pPam Songhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15399678618799594311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-21220410716737897692007-10-02T15:38:00.000+08:002007-10-02T15:38:00.000+08:00Yes, I must apologise for my grammar.. was trying ...Yes, I must apologise for my grammar.. was trying to type too fast and also years of manglish have killed off any proper english which I might still have in me..Leonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17574066329265738445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-62501747131117181342007-10-02T13:17:00.000+08:002007-10-02T13:17:00.000+08:00Yes, I see how nasty and revengeful a guy can get....Yes, I see how nasty and revengeful a guy can get. But at the same time, I don't think that those moves are very wise of him. I'll explain it in my post. I haven't started writing but today I'm pretty free so I'll do it. <BR/><BR/>Coming soon....Pam Songhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15399678618799594311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-84285686672212623792007-10-02T01:18:00.000+08:002007-10-02T01:18:00.000+08:00Leon: Hey Buddy! Relaxla....Send the man to the ho...Leon: Hey Buddy! Relaxla....Send the man to the hospital but spare the lady la. Physically hurting the woman that you love will eventually deepens your hurts even if she has wronged you. I always believe that those who play with 'fire' will eventually consume by the 'fire'!<BR/><BR/>Pam: Now you see...how nasty and revengeful a guy can be when he is cheated....hahaha =)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-16209863223452908272007-10-01T19:20:00.000+08:002007-10-01T19:20:00.000+08:00Okay, not only are you a MCP, you've really got so...Okay, not only are you a MCP, you've really got some bucking-up to do when it comes to your English. Tsk tsk. Shame on YOU.<BR/><BR/>Wait lah. Some people actually have WORK to do okay. We don't come to the office to laze around. We actually write intelligent stuff and not chauvinistic or politically skewed posts like you so frequently do. *grin*<BR/><BR/>You wait lah.Pam Songhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15399678618799594311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-83213157657328001432007-10-01T18:53:00.000+08:002007-10-01T18:53:00.000+08:00You might wanna read my latest post first before y...You might wanna read my latest post first before you fire up yours.<BR/><BR/>I bet it'll give you much more stuff to write about :)<BR/><BR/><BR/>http://onlineblasphemy.blogspot.com/2007/10/cheating.html<BR/><BR/><BR/>CheersLeonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17574066329265738445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-1562059057224400342007-10-01T16:19:00.000+08:002007-10-01T16:19:00.000+08:00You know what? I thought about it. I'm gonna write...You know what? I thought about it. I'm gonna write a post on this. Wait till my response comes.Pam Songhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15399678618799594311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-24413711206693485822007-10-01T08:59:00.000+08:002007-10-01T08:59:00.000+08:00Am trigger happy at the mo. Will be back to commen...Am trigger happy at the mo. Will be back to comment when fingers free up.Pam Songhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15399678618799594311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-40872961614964421162007-10-01T00:49:00.000+08:002007-10-01T00:49:00.000+08:00I am against hurting your loved ones in any way at...I am against hurting your loved ones in any way at all... no ifs, buts and whens about it. When you hurt someone you love, it's just wrong. <BR/><BR/>But I am also for freedom of speech and action. Totally. So I always say that one can do anything he / she wants. It's what we call liberty. One's own basic human rights. So if somebody wants to cheat, who are we to tell him / her no?<BR/><BR/>Before you start critisizing me, allow me to share with you guys that it's actually my own better half that I most often stress this point to: Do what your heart desires. Live free. Live to the fullest. No restrictions. If it's gonna hurt me, then don't let me find out about it.<BR/><BR/>So no, I am not going to shoot anybody. It's wrong to cheat, but I, we or anybody else except yourself is in no position to tell you that. <BR/><BR/>(but I will send the bastard that cheats with my gf / partner / wife to the hospital ... and that, is my right)Leonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17574066329265738445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-67104489528870161612007-10-01T00:08:00.001+08:002007-10-01T00:08:00.001+08:00well said.. hehe... those who cheat not only deser...well said.. hehe... those who cheat not only deserve being strile by ligthning.. in my mind, they must be buried alive bwahahaha...yunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16806807726818593107noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-89990114740575454062007-10-01T00:08:00.000+08:002007-10-01T00:08:00.000+08:00Most associated man to be the stronger side compar...Most associated man to be the stronger side compared to woman in term of physical...Thats obvious; however many failed to realise that man is just as vulnerable as woman when his heart is in play. Unlike woman, man will usually sobs in private and tears run down man's cheek when no one is around... <BR/><BR/>And about punishment...like bang-bang...I will say there is no point to shoot the cheater. Bullets are expensive you know! =P<BR/><BR/>So just walk away and find a deserving partner that will appreciates better. =)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-45270755293867070622007-09-30T20:56:00.000+08:002007-09-30T20:56:00.000+08:00ATTN: Leon– YEAH! HOW'D I KNOW!?I'm GUESSING the s...ATTN: Leon<BR/>– YEAH! HOW'D I KNOW!?<BR/><BR/>I'm GUESSING the same reasons men cheat. Cos they're slime. Cos they're insecure. Cos they've got flimsy self esteem. Cos they're totally warped in the head. Cos they're too gutless to leave a wrong relationship. Cos they're brainless enough to enter a wrong relationship while having someone else. Cos they're people with no principles, morals or values. Cos they like side dishes and are going round conveyor belts looking to be shot, maybe?<BR/><BR/>COS THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT IT MEANS TO LOVE ANOTHER.<BR/><BR/><BR/>ATTN: estherlauderlyn<BR/>– You said it, babe. BANG BANG!Pam Songhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15399678618799594311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-15519148939545983642007-09-30T17:07:00.000+08:002007-09-30T17:07:00.000+08:00how'd she know?? she's not the cheating kind! shee...how'd she know?? she's not the cheating kind! sheesh. I SAY SHOOT EMestherlauderlynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04831922240018712439noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-24622545641941030912007-09-30T13:54:00.000+08:002007-09-30T13:54:00.000+08:00Why do women cheat?Why do women cheat?Leonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17574066329265738445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-32716727843637077392007-09-30T10:43:00.000+08:002007-09-30T10:43:00.000+08:00ATTN: adrian– Yep, the Hokkiens know it well, man....ATTN: adrian<BR/>– Yep, the Hokkiens know it well, man. Good for them. Others need to learn.<BR/><BR/><BR/>ATTN: leon<BR/>– Go ahead. You have my permission to shoot on sight.<BR/><BR/>See? I so fair. Hmmph.Pam Songhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15399678618799594311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-54706648813491722902007-09-30T02:51:00.000+08:002007-09-30T02:51:00.000+08:00What about women who cheats?I know the numbers MIG...What about women who cheats?<BR/><BR/>I know the numbers MIGHT be less than the men, but cheating happens to both sides of the gender.<BR/><BR/>Why are you targetting specifically men?<BR/><BR/>Can we shoot women who cheats too?Leonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17574066329265738445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-63482644460211158192007-09-30T01:13:00.000+08:002007-09-30T01:13:00.000+08:00Hokkien says this:"Mai lang; mai lan-lang"= "Dunwa...Hokkien says this:<BR/>"Mai lang; mai lan-lang"<BR/>= "Dunwan people, dun play people"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-7180730636819789562007-09-30T00:08:00.000+08:002007-09-30T00:08:00.000+08:00Preach it, sista!Preach it, sista!Pam Songhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15399678618799594311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32353272.post-70870896254733241992007-09-29T22:04:00.000+08:002007-09-29T22:04:00.000+08:00May lightening strike the bums of those who cheat ...May lightening strike the bums of those who cheat not once, not twice.. but a zillion times!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com